Saturday, October 16, 2004

Happy Together

Saw Wong Kar-Wai's Happy Together at the NFT tonight. Flighty Ho Po-Wing (Leslie Cheung) and loyal yet sullen Lai Yiu-Fai (the gorgeous Tony Leung) are two gay men from Hong Kong, washed up "at the end of the world" in Argentina.

Lai works as a doorman of a Buenos Aires tango club and Ho is his hustler boyfriend. The two are emotionally and physically drained, strangers to each other in a strange land, but desperately struggling through co-dependency, caretaking, adultery and fading intimacy to make their relationship work.

Less of a "gay movie" per se and more a story of human relationships, Happy Together had me in tears of recognition. Dark and harrowing, deeply moving yet unsentimental, it's quite a departure from most of the Kar-Wai films I have seen in that this is a relationship at the end rather than the beginning of its lifespan.

The casting of two Asian stars as gay lovers was a controversial decision for Kar-Wai that saw Happy Together banned in South Korea and Malaysia, and rated Category III (adults only) in Hong Kong.

My favourite of all the Kar-Wai films I've seen so far.

A great evening overall, that began with a delicious and inexpensive dinner (under £20 for two - chicken katsu curry, sashimi and breaded chicken bento box, and free rice tea) at Tokyo Diner in Soho.

Related links:
+ New York Times review
+ Other reviews (Rotten Tomatoes)

Other links today:
+ A little reminder of the history of blogs by Rebecca Blood
+ What do women want? Most everything, according to a new study that shows women are more aroused by more forms of erotica than men. (Free day pass may be needed to read this).

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