Friday, May 25, 2007

The Big Apple 1


We stayed again at the very trendy Hotel on Rivington in the Lower East Side and kept bumping into Philip Glass there at breakfast and in the elevator / Our suite had floor to ceiling windows on each side with luxurious views over Manhattan / And a fantastic mini bar with organic juices, real juice jelly beans and Babeland goodies / And my favourite Ren products in the double shower bathroom / And an amazing Swedish tempur-pedic sleep system bed with high thread count pure white sheets / Breakfasts in the hotel's spacious and airy Thor restaurant included homemade granola, divine eggs benedicts and huge blueberry pancakes / The LES comes alive after work and our first night was spent drinking in Schiller's Liquor Bar filled with old mirrors and antique white subway tiles / It felt great drinking in a smoke-free environment and I was surprised by how few people were smoking on the streets too / Rib-eye and fillet steaks with fries followed by pancakes con leche at the heaving and dark Azul - steaks as good as Gaucho and in an ambience as down to earth as Santa Maria Del Buen Ayre / Though my best steaks ever were eaten in Hill City, South Dakota - but that's another story / It's good to be back in NYC.

Tuesday, May 22, 2007

So many little things...

... to remember for such a short trip: locate passports, insurance numbers, dollar notes, plug adaptor, Lonely Planet and Dorling Kindersley guide books, Time Out's NYC food guide, a couple of Time Out NYC magazines, a novel, a notebook and pen; charge camera batteries, clear credit card balance to start over again, collect new supply of contact lenses, do laundry, clean house for mother-in-law who will be staying over while we're away, tidy away things we don't want mother-in-law to see (!), change bed covers, pack enough clothes for 4 days though not too much as we want to shop shop shop, drop keys off with M's sister...

Two more days and we'll be in NYC again. Hurrah!

Monday, May 21, 2007

Weekend snapshots


Ackroyd & Harvey's FlyTower and Anthony Gormley's Event Horizon / Leisurely lunch at the fabulously chilled Benugo at the BFI Southbank / Walking through Kensington Gore / Paul Chan's mesmerising, soporific digital projections at the Serpentine / Strolling through Hyde Park / Buying ku:nel magazines and a 2005 Beat Takeshi DVD in the basement of Mitsukoshi on Regent Street / Snow Jewel white tea, Sparrow's Tongue green tea and Sobacha roasted buckwheat tea at Postcard Teas on Dering Street / Buying a selection of sushi from the Japan Centre to eat for dinner at home / Pocky bitter chocolate covered pretzel sticks for dessert / Watching Takeshis' on DVD / Flicking through Into The Vietnamese Kitchen cookbook / Salivating over the photos in Japanese lifestyle magazine ku:nel / Ringing art exhibitions we want to see later this week in NYC / Devouring a selection of cheesecakes from J Grodzinki & Daughters in Stamford Hill / Sunday roast chicken with pearl barley and sultanas plus spinach / Kita Koga manga for bedtime reading.

Sunday, May 20, 2007

Waterfall


In Hyde Park.

Saturday, May 19, 2007

Eating

This week we've made asparagus with garlic and parmesan over spaghetti...

... steamed gai lan greens and eaten them over buckwheat noodles, toasted sesame seeds and soy sauce, accompanied by miso with wakame and tofu...

... eaten fish and chips from the local chippy when we couldn't be bothered to cook...

... made aubergine omelette and green beans...

Today was a long day of preparing for a pitch presentation next Monday. Actually most days this week have been long. And now it's the end of an exhausting but exhilerating work week. It's the weekend - yippee!

Thursday, May 17, 2007

Wednesday, May 16, 2007

Things to make the heart sing

There are many lovely little things in life that make my heart sing. Tonight, though, it's two things - the freshness of asparagus lightly steamed and tossed in parmesan, garlic and olive oil over spaghetti...

... and a snuggle on the couch with the still quite old-fashioned New YorkTimes on Sunday.

Tuesday, May 15, 2007

Lamb, pumpkin and pomegranate stew

Our bottle of pomegranate molasses is coming in very useful. On Sunday, while he was also making our beef Stroganoff, my husband prepared the bulk of a lamb, pumpkin and pomegranate stew for us to eat on Monday night. The original recipe is in Silvena Rowe's magnificent Feasts book.

He heated some olive oil in a heavy pan and browned 300g of diced lamb shoulder. He seasoned the lamb with salt and pepper and then transferred to a plate. In the pan, he fried a diced medium onion, 2 diced cloves of garlic, a teaspoon of ground cumin, half a teaspoon of dried chilli flakes for a few minutes then added back in the browned lamb. He added some lamb stock - enough to cover the meat - and 3 tablespoons of pomegranate molasses, brought the stew to the boil, then simmered, covered, for an hour on a low heat, periodically keeping an eye that the mixture didn't dry out.

Last night, he returned from work and heated up the mixture, adding the cubed flesh of half a medium orange pumpkin, and cooked the stew for another 20-30 minutes until the pumpkin had gone a little mushy. Before serving he stirred through a small bunch of fresh coriander and we ate it with lightly toasted flat bread.

Monday, May 14, 2007

Blue and grey

A complex combination of grey, drizzly weather, a dying laptop screen and some lingering work issues from Friday conspired to make me feel quite blue on Sunday. I'm usually quite a glass half full kind of girl and feeling even a little down makes me feel far worse than I should. So I decided to invigorate all my senses and bake some herb and parmesan muffins.

I preheated the oven to 180 celsius (350 fahrenheit), then roughly chopped small bunches of parsley and chives. In a bowl, I whisked together 3 eggs and half a teaspoon each of salt and freshly ground pepper until frothy. I spooned in 125 ml of plain yoghurt, a tablespoon of green pesto and 25 g of freshly grated parmesan and whisked again.

In a separate bowl, I sifted 150 g of plain flour with a teaspoon of baking powder then poured it into the egg mixture, stirring until everything had incorporated. Then I stirred in the fresh herbs.

I poured the batter into a 6 serving silicone muffin tray, filling each hole to two thirds capacity. I sprinkled with a tablespoon of sesame seeds and baked for 25 minutes until golden.

Quick, easy and absolutely delicious. It was just the tonic I needed. I haven't baked in years. When I was a vegan undergraduate at Goldsmiths I worked in a health food shop called Cross Currants and got loads of discounts. I would buy organic stoneground flour and fresh yeast and bake some variety of cake, bread or flan every weekend. I lived in an international student house on Amersham Road. It was self-catering and everyone, from Burma to Ghana via France, loved cooking. The large basement kitchen was the warm hub of the house. I had so much fun there.

I think next week I'll make some parmesan and sun dried tomato muffins. M said he'd love some sweet ones with lemon zest and poppy seeds too. His command may very well be my wish.

Sunday's kitchen was filled with wonderful aromas. We ate the muffins for lunch and then for dinner M made beef Stroganoff and grilled balls of mashed potatoes, which we hadn't had since last December. His sister, who lives just round the corner from us, popped round to share it. She brought with her lovely gifts from Tunisia plus a chocolate Lindt bunny. Afterwards we watched a few episodes of Curb Your Enthusiasm on DVD.

Sunday, May 13, 2007

Waiting...

... at Notting Hill...

Weddings, tarts and Nyonya

Rafta Rafta at the National Theatre today was laugh out loud hilarious. Set in a cramped two up, two down terrace in Bolton, British born Indian Atul is unable to consumate his marriage on his wedding night and for six weeks thereafter due to the close proximity of his loving mother and overbearing father in the same house. You see, Atul is still financially dependent on his parents and can't afford to leave home despite now being married. When the distraught virgin bride Vina confides in her own parents about her new husband's inability to perform, the news spreads to Atul's parents too. They are shocked and ashamed, and the revelations that unravel in their lives are so entertaining that I wish the play had focussed entirely on them.

Harish Patel plays the father who is bitterly disappointed by his unsuccessful (in all senses of the word) son and Meera Syal plays Atul's more understanding but acerbic mother. The chemistry between these two on stage electrified the entire performance and we had a truly entertaining time because of it.

Crossing the Thames on our way to the Tube we entertained ourselves trying to count all the life-size sculpture casts of Antony Gormley's body scattered along the horizon. To me they looked depressed and suicidal. Indeed, some people have alerted the emergency services in a panic seeing the lonely figures perched precariously on top of the high buildings. On the other hand, sometimes the figures looked self-contained and at peace or even defiant.

We then grabbed light and fluffy Portuguese custard tarts and coffees in Soho's Fernandez & Wells on Beak Street. The interior was an interesting mix of rough wood floors, white-washed walls and a clean concrete counter. The menu was refreshingly spartan - no more than necessary but what they have is done to perfection. Witness this adorable heart swirled through my latte, for example:

We ate dinner at the "home style" Peranakan restaurant Nyonya in Notting Hill. According to Nyonya's table mat, "Nyonya, meaning ladies from the descendants of the Peranakan which is the intermarriage between the Chinese settlers and the local Malays. From this intermarriage, came the birth of a unique colourful culture, tradition and most of all, the famous nyonya cuisine. Nyonya usually spent most of their time in the kitchen preparing food from the combination of a variety of herbs, spices, tamarind and coconut cream. To the older generation nyonya, this is an accomplishment, an art to be proud of. Thus, recipes are only handed down from generation to generation."

For starters, we ate lobak (pork marinated in five spices, wrapped in a crispy tofu skin and served with chilli sauce) and otak-otak (sliced white fish wrapped in banana leaves and steamed with coconut milk, herbs and spices). For mains, we ate char mee (fried yellow noodles with prawns, fish cake, squid and greens in a gravy sauce) and Singapore laksa (rice vermicelli, beansprouts, prawns, dried tofu, fish cake, shredded chicken and half a boiled egg in a spicy coconut sauce). Dessert was a traditional selection of steamed "pastries", some based on rice, others on coconut.

Our choices looked and tasted so good that the middle aged couple sitting next to us on the long tuk panjang table simply said to the waiter, "We'll have everything they're having!"

The food was deliciously robust in flavours and textures and the setting clean and modern. They could easily open a few more branches across London. I would suggest Soho and Green Lanes for starters!

Saturday, May 12, 2007

Shanghai night

We met after work and ran through the hard rain to the Shanghai Blues restaurant in Holborn. We've seen this restaurant many times passing by and had always wanted to visit. Shanghai Blues opened a couple of years ago in the grand and ornate listed building that formerly housed the St Giles Library. Hand painted silk awnings line the walls, there are original black Chinese alter tables, the seats are soft baby blue leather and the lights are cast from lanterns.

The food was delicious and equally well presented.We started with steamed scallop dumplings infused with and coloured green from spinach juice, and crispy squid with salted egg yolk. We moved onto mains of king prawns with long jing green tea, and diced fillet steak in a fruity mandarin sauce, accompanied by rice and gai lan greens in oyster sauce. Only the desserts disappointed: an uninspired platter of rambutans, dragon fruit, grapes, pineapples, kiwis and watermelons, and a lacklustre banana and green tea cake.

The decor was sumptuous and evocative of a decadent Shanghai in the 20s; the food was as sophisticated and as interesting as Yauatcha's menu; but the prices were higher, the service was patchy (our cocktails finally turned up as we finished our main meals), the jazz music was cheesy and loud, and the air was a little too smoky for comfort.

Friday, May 11, 2007

Chilli prawns

Dinner last night was chilli prawns from our Harumi's Japanese Home Cooking book, which we use alot. As the sushi rice was cooking in the rice cooker, I marinated 15-20 king prawns in a little sesame oil, salt, pepper and Shaoxing wine (you can use pale dry sherry instead) and set aside. In another bowl, I mixed together 200ml or a cup of hot water, a teaspoon of chicken stock powder, 4 tablespoons of tomato ketchup, a tablespoon of Shaoxing wine, a tablespoon of rice wine vinegar, 2 teaspoons of caster sugar and a little salt.

In our heavy Le Creuset saucepan, I fried a tablespoon each of finely diced garlic and ginger. When the aroma was released, I spooned in a tablespoon of chilli paste from a jar. Then I tipped in the prawns and stir-fried quickly. I added the sauce and brought to the boil then added a tablespoon of potato starch to thicken the mixture. Beginning to end, the dish took just 20 minutes to prepare and cook.

I served it with the daikon, carrot and cucumber pickles my husband had made the other night (to accompany our meal of sea bream and rice), steamed young stem broccoli and the sticky sushi rice.

Now that we've stocked our cupboards with the necessary ingredients - Shaoxing wine, mirin, rice wine vinegar, sesame oil, chilli paste, soy sauce - alot of Asian foods are quick and easy for us to cook after work.

A Google nobody

Before I got married, anyone could Google my maiden name and be presented with several pages of me, me, me: my publications record, the websites I had worked on, contributions to industry forums or conferences - in short, my entire career.

Now I've changed my surname, I've dropped out of Google sight. If I apply for a new job or want to be headhunted, undoubtedly I will be Googled by prospective employers and recruitment agencies whose searches will turn up nothing.

There are immediate things I can do of course - set up a new professional website in my new name and redirect my old site to the new one. But the rest of it is lost because I can't go back and append my new name to each and every bibliographic and website mention.

I really am starting over...

Wednesday, May 09, 2007

Here and now

"When the archer shoots for no particular prize, he has all his skills. When he shoots to win a brass buckle, he is already nevous. When he shoots for a gold prize, he goes blind, sees two targets, and is out of his mind. His skill has not changed, but the prize divides him. He cares! He thinks more of winning than of shooting, and the need to win drains him of his power” – Tranxu via Anthony De Mello.

I've been revisiting Anthony De Mello and Thomas Merton of late. Their words have nurtured me, on and off, since I was a teenager. I went to convent school and it was Sister Anne who first exposed me to the rich vein of Catholic thinking inspired by Buddhism. Her introduction influenced my spiritual life immensely.

Reading

Novels I've finished reading in the last week or so:
  • Black Swan Green by David Mitchell. Very funny and moving account of a thirteen year old stammerer and covert poet in a Worcestershire village at the height of the Falklands War and Thatcher.
  • Balzac And The Little Chinese Seamstress by Dai Sijie. Short, sweet, enchanting story about the forbidden literary re-education of two young men sent to Phoenix Mountain during Mao's campaign against intellectuals and radicals.
  • The Book Of Disquiet by Fernando Pessoa. Dense and overly introspective ramblings from a young man who does nothing but sits in his office or flat in Lisbon dreaming. I would have found this thought-provoking had I still been an existential, self-absorbed teenager.
  • In Praise Of Shadows by Jun'ichiro Tanizaki. An exquisite 80 page treatise on a range of topics from architecture to food around the theme of the collision between traditional and modern Japanese aesthetics.

Tuesday, May 08, 2007

Long weekend


Saturday:
  • Breakfast at home of feta and spinach boreks from Yasir Halim.
  • M bought shirts and a tie at Gieves & Hawkes, we bought two blouses (for me) and an Airtex shirt (for him) from Muji, and browsed menswear - Martin Margiela, Hugo Boss, APC, Dries van Noten - in Selfridges.
  • Lost ourselves in a surrealist (2001: A Space Odyssey-like) dreamscape in Selfridges - Dadadandy's The Fountain Of Innocence.
  • Lunched on cheese and dill pickles (M) and egg and anchovy (me) rye bread open sandwiches at the Nordic Bakery on Golden Square.
  • Popped into the Algerian Coffee Shop on Old Compton Street to stock up on Indian Mysore coffee beans.
  • Bought books in Waterstone's on Piccadilly: Rattawut Lapcharoensap's Sightseeing, Kenzo Kitakata's Ashes and Seicho Matsumoto's Inspector Imanishi Investigates for M; Manju Kapur's Home, David Mitchell's Ghostwritten and Richard Yates' The Easter Parade for me; Wired and Time Out New York magazines (with David Bowie on the cover, yes) for both of us.
  • Saw the late Lee Lozano's gently soothing, abstracted geometrical pencil drawings and colour washes at Hauser & Wirth. Lozano in 1968: "In physics, all straight lines are really curved if you extend them far enough. And if you've been doing straight lines for a while, the next thing is to try curves. Where else is there to go but all the way round?"
  • Was mesmerised by John Maeda's floating or pulsating or swirling or flittering digital landscapes writ large or small on canvas, iPod screens or computer screens. At the Riflemaker. Maeda image above.
  • Uninspired by the both childlike and adult-like pencil sketches of Chris Orr's Dresden, Hiroshima, Nagasaki, Tokyo and London drawings at the Jill George Gallery.
  • Finished the day off with a meal at the fabulous and busy and laid back Santa Maria Del Buen Ayre in London Fields. Shared a 14oz prime Argentine sirloin steak, a 10oz grilled Argentine fillet steak, two Argentine-style pork sausages, black pudding and provolone cheese (below) plus several bottles of Quilleros, followed by crème caramel with dulce de leche for me and cheesecake de dulce de leche for M.




Sunday:
  • Began the day with Mysore coffee in bed and Yasir Halim croissants.
  • Cleaned the house, did laundry, sorted out meals for the week.
  • Lunch of poached eggs on a bed of spinach on toasted flat bread at home.
  • Went to Hampstead to revisit Burgh House, where we were wed over two months ago (photo below).
  • Walked across Hampstead Heath in the crisp air and intermitent sunshine. Ate gooey chocolate fudge cake in Kenwood House and lay in the grass looking up at the trees.
  • Walked back home, getting lots of pollen and what felt like tree shrapnel in our eyes, via Highgate and Crouch End.
  • Cooked breaded veal schnitzel with fried potatoes and tomato salad for dinner, washed down by a bottle of Cahors wine which M bought from Toulouse last week.
  • Finished the day with a re-run of Ugly Betty on E4.




Monday:
  • I can't believe how much detail I used to write in each blog post. It's enjoyable - for me at least - to revisit my life before (well, at least before October 6th) and after M.
  • Browsing my archives, I stumbled upon this post on the ways being with my husband (then my fiance) had changed me. The notes still apply.
  • After a leisurely morning lying in bed late, drinking coffee, eating croissants and Turkish cheese, watching the rain batter our windows, surfing the blogosphere, perusing cheese muffin recipes, reading the weekend FT and the Sunday New York Times - I was disinclined when M suggested we go into town again today. He's far more active than me and gets cabin fever frequently. I, on the other hand, can happily spend many hours pottering around our house doing nothing in particular. I've been known, for example, to waste entire weekends watching episode after episode of Sex And The City or Buffy The Vampire Slayer (my guilty pleasure) on DVD - well, at least when I was single. So when M suggested this morning we go for a meander around the British Museum, I screwed up my face and said, "Let's not". Then he dangled this carrot: "We can pop into Waitrose in The Brunswick in Bloomsbury". Suddenly I began dreaming of all sorts of edible goodies I could buy...
  • But luckily the rain continued and we settled in, instead, for an afternoon at home watching Japanese movies on DVD: Tony Takitani - a muted and evocative meditation on love and loneliness, self-sufficiency and dependence based on Haruki Murakami's short story (this link contains an abridged version of the story), and Yasujiro Ozu's 1952 masterpiece Flavour of Green Tea Over Rice following the rekindling of love between a bored and very different Tokyo couple. Here's a great post on Ozu. "Everyday life, rendered tellingly, provides more than enough drama to engage us deeply" - Ozu.
  • For lunch, as the wind howled outside and the rain continued to lash against our fragile kitchen windows, M made us both bowls of hot sushi rice topped with sliced veal schnitzel (leftover from last night's dinner), grated daikon and umeboshi plums with a dipping sauce of mirin and soy. He served the donburi with small bowls of miso broth with dried wakame seaweed.
  • For dinner, he's now roasting a chicken and we'll have it with roast potatoes and a carrot and caraway seed salad.
  • I can't believe the long weekend's over.